http://www.mssinglemama.com/single-moms/ Single Mom Forum for Single Moms en Sat, 25 May 2013 23:46:27 +0000 http://www.mssinglemama.com/single-moms/topic.php?id=741#post-3076 Mon, 30 Jan 2012 22:40:40 +0000 happilove 3076@http://www.mssinglemama.com/single-moms/ <p>Hello<br /> How are you, My name is Miss happiness. i am single obviously it my pleasusre to contact you after view your contact mail which really get me very interested in knowing you more for a serious and urgent matter.I would appreciate if we get acquainted as soon as possible i have something serious to discuss with you, write me back</p> <p><a href="mailto:happinessmiss12@yahoo.com">happinessmiss12@yahoo.com</a></p> <p>so that we can get to know each other better.for futher communication and Identification, quit believing that we can move from here since it takes one to know someone</p> <p>Thanks and remem bless.</p> <p>I look forward to hear from you soon.</p> <p>Yours,</p> <p>Happiness </p> http://www.mssinglemama.com/single-moms/topic.php?id=741#post-2954 Sun, 22 Jan 2012 18:38:04 +0000 elley1985 2954@http://www.mssinglemama.com/single-moms/ <p>Hi all, im new to this site and have a issue thats bothering me.</p> <p>I have a 2 year old child with a man I had been close friends with for almost 10 years. Since the conception and birth of my child the friendship with him had badly deteriorated (for a variety of different reasons), we went back and forth with talking and not talking etc etc. This guy and I were never a couple.</p> <p>I have never been much of a dater but as of a few months ago i began feeling as though I wanted to settle down and start meeting and talking to guys. I wasnt going to go out of my way to meet men but if i met a guy that i liked i was not going to push him away.</p> <p>I ended up meeting a really nice guy out of the blue one day and we became very friendly very quick. Admittedly i liked him being around not just because of the attraction but also because he was a breath of fresh air and a big distraction from some personal issues i was having in my life at that time. I wouldnt say we ever "dated" but we did hang out on a few occasions and were very much into each other.</p> <p>When we did hang out, we would spend the night together in some place drinking, smoking and just generally having fun. This to me was very enjoyable because again, being with him and just being able to let loose was something i felt i needed. </p> <p>Both myself and this guy were clear on the fact that we were just enjoying each others company but i dont think he knew how i much i enjoyed it. I never really thought too much about him and i allowing our "thing" to progress and i never thought too much about any future him and i may have until he began to subtly suggest that he wanted things to maybe develop in the sense that we should actually start dating.</p> <p>Seeing as i have never been in a relationship before or ever really dated people i was kinda taken aback by his hints but still embraced it and began to get very comfortable with the idea of him and i dating.</p> <p>But stuff happened to him which meant that we have not seen each other for nearly 3 months. We do speak every so often but now i am confused with my feelings.</p> <p>I think of him often and think about how i felt when him and i was together. You may think that seeing as we were never serious with each other and we hadnt even "officially began dating" that i would not think of him or how i felt when i was with him at all but i do.</p> <p>I miss how happy i was when he was around and i am confused.. what exactly am i feeling? Do i miss the company and the general happiness i felt when he was around or do i miss him??</p> <p>Its starting to really bug me. I guess I would like it if someone could maybe give an outsiders opinion on me and what i have said in order for me to understand things more clearly.</p> <p>thanks </p>