I felt like I was living at my parents' house!! Don't get me wrong, it was GREAT to see "P" without having to pay for a sitter. But my kids are 8, 5, and 4, and I was constantly worried that someone was going to walk in on us when we were being affectionate with each other. I'm not even talking about naked affection! I did tell my oldest that P was coming over after everyone was in bed, just in case my son heard voices and wondered what was going on downstairs.
For those more experienced, how did you make that transition? My kids have met him, but always as a "friend" ... so it would freak them out to see me kissing him or holding hands or whatever. They've never met a man that I've dated, and my two youngest don't even remember that mommy and daddy used to sleep in the same room or even live together!
Thanks for your wisdom!