I notice that many of us have many other things in common other than being single mamas. How is this common ground determined? Is it that our single mama condition determines our actions/choices or was it the other way around? Were our poor choices (for most of all at least) that led us to choosing such wrong partners? Many here had "promising" futures & could've gotten further but poor choices sabotaged that "great, brilliant future" -not that having such miracle angels isn't all that..or more-
There's a lot of talk about being able to identify red flags and acting upon them with our gutt or reasoning. What if these red flags are on me and my actions/choices toward myself??
My real question here I guess is:Do you still find yourself sabotaging you? In any area of you life,career, parenting, love life, etc? If so,how do you stop it?
Do I make any sense at all?