Hi, I am new to this site and just wondering if anyone could let me know if I am in the wrong for this...My daughters father lives a half hr away from us has no car or license and gets mad if I dont bring her as often as he wants for him to see her, its not like he pays for the gas to bring her or anything. No help, he refuses to find a friend or a family member of his that can meet me half way or alternate picking her up and dropping her off back to my home...so am I in the wrong for not bringing her anytime he wants? It makes me feel so guilty, but I cant always afford it and dont always have the time...but I feel like people think I am back for not bringing her to see him whenever he asks, because I mean at least he wants to be in her life unlike some men right? idk any advice would be helpful (our custody agreement says he has to ask 72 hrs ahead of time for a visit) but he doesnt always ask then the day he wants to see her springs it on me claiming he did ask but I just dont listen to him ever...
am I in the wrong?(2 posts)
Posted 11 months ago #
Honestly, I agree with you. If she is old enough to understand and asks you to take her and you refuse, that would be a little messed up. He might want to be in her life, but he wants YOU to make the effort to put him there. That's not the same thing as HIM making the effort. If he has visitation rights, it's up to him to fulfill them and find a way to see her. I would bring this up to your caseworker as well, see if they have any advice since he could try to say you're keeping her from him.Posted 10 months ago #
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