This may be long so sorry ahead of time!
Me and my bf have been dating for 3 years 2 1/2 have been long distance.
We have a six month old. Well in June I moved across country to be with him so he could have a relationship with his son.
He could not be there for the birth because of reasons.
During our relationship I have found many things naked pictures, conversations with other girls about sex, even the day of my sons birth he was on craigslist personals talking to girls.
Just this past week I found him talking about sex to one of my friends here.
Time and Time again I have told him I didnt like this and to stop.
He says "I have not cheated, never have and never will" but isnt that what they all say.
We arent married and his name is not on my sons birth certificate.
He has done a dna test because his mommy made him.
I just dont have a good feeling about our relationship.
And what my question is when my son was born with the father not being on the birth certificate the state automatically sends you papers for paternity and child support.
Well on the hospital information I put his dads name but because he wasn't there he could not be put on the birth certificate.
Well now the state is calling me asking me for information about the father so they can do a support order.
I live with him now, but not to sure about the relationship.
Does anyone have advise on what to do??
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Living with someone and confused need help!
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tl0127
MemberPosted 3 years ago # -
Darcy
MemberFirst of all, let's call it for what it is...
He has cheated. I know not everyone sees it like this, but many people do. This has moved beyond looking at a few pictures. Conversations with other girls about sex and trolling for hookups IS cheating. What to do about this is your call, but he sounds like a jerk to me.
It is easier said then done, but you should probably get out of the relationship. Read some of the posts from other women on this site. It's hard, but it can be done. You will be tired, frustrated, and lonely at times. In the end, however, you will be your own person.
What is this person giving you that you cannot live without? Is it worth it to have all of this doubt, suspicion, and negativity in your life?
Posted 3 years ago # -
Agree with Darcy - I am SO sorry. Hang on, as long as you can and save, save, save so you can move out.
Posted 3 years ago # -
the very sight your partner happens to be cheater. you have not mentioned the result of DNA test of your child and the partner but if it was positive your claim stands genuine and you can take legal assistance for mentioning the name of your partner as the father of your child.which would help you future for claiming the child support.
Posted 3 years ago #
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