So.. i am dating a single mom .... Hurray ... I like her very very very much.... but I have a very very very strong libedo... very strong.. And i am what i would call kinky... my ... i guess GF..lol. seems to like that about me the problem is her son only 11 ...And so far we have had to sneak around, and of course finding time for our selves is very very very difficult. .. Sleep overs at her place ARE A NO... JUST BECAUSE I REALLY DONT WANT TO EXPLAIN TO AN 11 YEAR OLD WHY HIS MOM IS SCREAMING so much ..lol..lol..lol..... .. And she cant exactly sleep over at my place because then there is no one to watch her son... what we have been able to do a few times is leave her son with a her cousin , who is a very close friend of mine... thats how we met.... BUT I DONT WANT TO MAKE THIS CONSTANT THING because then her son will notice the pattern..and also i am sure that her cousin will eventually get sick of it too...... I was considering paying her my cousins niece to baby sit .. but i don't know how that will fare either..... So .. any ideas on what i should do .. OR SHOULD I JUST LOWER MY EXPECTATIONS for sex in this relationship .... ( I really hate the thought of that.. as my gf is in her sexual prime .. she is 33 , i am 26, and i really want her to enjoy her sexuality as much as she can .. she didint date for years after her divorce soon after her son was born... any ideas.. ???
Intamacy between single moms and their BF....(3 posts)
Finding a babysitter might be the only way you can spend the night together. Now summer is near, it depends what the boy likes, maybe there are sleep-over camps near by? Or send him to grandparents or his dad's for a week or 2?
Also when your schedules permit, take some time off during the day. Each state has some different holiday schedules. Like here in Maryland, Columbus Day and Veterans Day are federal holidays but not school holidays. It is difficult. If you want to date her long term, you will have to eventually figure out a more quiet way to satisfy her without waking up the son, like all married couples have to do already. And in a few years, he will figure it out on his own any way, so nothing to worry about at that time. Good luck.
Yeah. Just shut the door and do it quietly! :)
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