I had my little boy when I was 20 and am now 35.
To cut a long story short i was very bad to the father. I said bad things about him that weren't true and stopped him from seeing our boy. Last year when my boy was 14 years old the father turned up unexpectedly at our sons school and told him that he was his father, showed him court documents etc to prove that he had done nothing wrong.
My child came home from school and said "i knew all along, im going to live with my dad" and he left. He has NOT spoke a word to me since and that's been nearly a year although it feels like 100 years.
Will he ever forgive me? Should he ever forgive me for essentially 'kidnapping' him from his dad all those years? I hated the father for many years because of the break up etc. I was young and stupid and now I've lost everything. Will he come back one day?
I wanted to make the fathers life a misery...I suceeded for 14 years and now my life is a living hell. And I deserve everything I get. Will he come back, i think I'm going crazy. I just don't know what to do. I have lost my child.