Ok so the dude that I had a good first date with that has since turned into a frog with the nasty text message asking if I wanted to f*** all night. Well he's at it again. I got another charming (rolling eyes here!) text message from him at 1:47am Friday night/Saturday morning. UGH. Yuck. I just don't appreciate being 'talked' to like this.
How do you get rid of a big ole FROG?
Helen
Member
can you block his number? otherwise text him back with 'Please do not contact me again. Continued contact will be considered harassment and will be dealt with accordingly.'
Hi hon, what a jerk.
1. Tell him to take your number out of his phone (with a text) and send it when he is sleeping - so at like 7:30 am when the kid/s wake up.
2. Turn your phone off at night when you sleep if the kid/s are home.
3. Remember that all of this is justified and don't feel guilty about it. The guy is actually disrupting your sleep and making you feel bad about yourself. EJECT.
xoxo
Helen - the please do not contact me again was sent via text to him right after the first nasty message I got. It obviously didn't work because of Friday night's nasty text message.
mssinglemama - I hate that something HE's doing is making me feel bad. I didn't do anything (well other than some heavy kissing that was going on which I guess probably shouldn't have happened on a first date) to make him do this to me so I shouldn't feel bad or guilty but I do.
Tishia, You should not feel bad. In my opinion, even if you went at it like rabbits, if he talks down or offensively to you and you have asked him to stop, it is harassment. I would block the number if you can. If not, call the phone company and tell them to stop all his calls that he is harassing you. They will take it from there. On a side note, I had a creepy frog once that was texting me msgs that he loved me and wanted to be with me forever after the first time we talked. Except he was sending them at like 3 am. Now, I don't sleep well and am likely to be up then, but what normal person is up at 3 am waiting for the icky creepy guy to text them?
Send me his picture and we can Date Wreck him...?
Haha... Only kidding. (sort of)
Be firm or just ignore him. Eventually he'll realize it's not worth the effort to text if you don't answer him.
Don't give this dude power over you, girl! If you're going to date, you're going to have to thicken up your skin. There are a LOT of jerks and douches out there. I'm sorry this is rattling you, I've been there as well.
ozbrooke
Member
Tell him you're not attracted to him, - worked for me with the last one who wouldn't get the hint. He completely freaked out but I haven't heard from him since ;)
Jami I so thought about submitting him to Date Wrecks! LOL
I think he finally got the message because knock on wood I haven't heard from him since the 2nd dirty nasty text message a few weeks ago!
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